Mastering the Potty: 7 Expert Tips on Potty Training from a Seasoned Consultant
Potty training is a significant milestone in your child's development, but, for many parents, it can also be daunting, overwhelming, and…well, messy! I started my journey in potty training with my first son who had a lot of anxiety around his toileting. We were frustrated, exhausted, and didn’t know how to support him. Since then, I have supported hundreds of families in their potty training journeys and in this article, I want to share some tips, tricks, and insights I have learned along the way. These are proven strategies that I have seen have a huge impact on children’s success in potty training wins and even shorten the time it takes to be fully potty trained.
Start at the Right Time: Timing is crucial when it comes to potty training. While every child is different, most are ready to begin between the ages of 18 months and 2.5 years. While some children will show clear signs of readiness such as staying dry for longer periods, showing interest in the bathroom, or being able to communicate their needs, others may not at all and will need a little more of a nudge from you. Timing it right for both their developmental abilities and your readiness to commit will be key!
Make it fun: While you may be dreading potty training and the mess, the potty training experience can be really fun and hugely positive and encouraging for your child. Set up a designated potty training area with all the essentials – a small floor potty, books, and perhaps some stickers or fidget toys. Up your positive energy and celebrate every success, no matter how small. If you are excited and motivated, your child will be too!
Be Consistent: Consistency is probably the single most important thing in potty training. Build potty sits into your routine like after meals or naps. Keep your reactions consistent and your language positive and repetitive. Phrases like “all pee and poo go in the potty now” can be repeated to help solidify the connection.
Use Positive Reinforcement: Positive reinforcement can be a powerful tool in potty training. Praise your child for their efforts, whether they successfully use the potty or simply try. While most children only need your positive reaction to motivate them, some children benefit from a simple reward system, such as stickers or a small gummy bear or M&M, to incentivise progress.
Patience is Key: Potty training is a marathon, not a spring. It can be frustrating at times, but it's essential to remain patient and calm. When accidents happen – and they will — offer a calm, minimal reaction and remind them that all pee and poo go in the potty. Remember that every child learns at their own pace, and accidents are a natural part of the process and a great moment for learning!
Encourage Independence: Encourage your child to take ownership of their potty training journey. Let them choose their own underwear or pick out a special potty training book. Allow them to feel when they have to go and what their body is telling them instead of over-prompting. Empowering them to make decisions and take ownership can increase their motivation and sense of responsibility.
Seek Professional Help if Needed: If you're struggling with potty training, don't hesitate to seek professional help. A potty training consultant can offer personalized advice and support tailored to your child's unique needs. We are here to support you in navigating this time with confidence!
Let potty training be a fun, engaging, and exciting developmental milestone for your kiddo! By starting at the right time, creating a positive environment, and staying consistent, you can help your child navigate this important stage of development with confidence. Remember to be patient, celebrate progress, and seek help if needed. Before you know it, your little one will be proudly using the potty like a pro!